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Trauma may make us feel like we are So Far from healing and a chance at healthy, happy love. However, in reality, healthy love and healing can be So Close within your reach with a proven plan, resources, and safe support. Allow So Far So Close to support you on REDISCOVERING YOU!

Regardless of your past, you are fearfully and wonderfully made. It's time to own your worth! ~ Psalm 139:14

If you are in danger do not hesitate to call the Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233

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Emotional Healing and Rediscover of Self-Love with
So Far So Close

The Rediscover YOU program by So Far So Close, INC. supports women and children of domestic violence during the critical phase of fleeing abuse by utilizing donations and resources to aid in a time of need. With nearly 1 in 4 women and 1 in 15 children experiencing domestic violence each year, the program addresses risks like homelessness (experienced by 57% of women fleeing abuse) re-victimization, and even incarceration. Offering a holistic spiritual and trauma-informed life coaching approach, it helps survivors heal from sexual harm while promoting a sense of identity, self-worth, and healthy love.

"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." ~ Psalm 147:3 (NIV)

WALK IN GOD's LOVE

About

So Far So Close, Inc. was born from my own lived experience as a survivor of domestic violence. Having personally navigated the devastating effects of abusive relationships, I witnessed firsthand the profound impact that domestic violence has on women, children, and entire families. According to the Resource Center on Domestic Violence, between 3.3 million to 10 million children are exposed to adult domestic violence each year. These children are often caught in a cycle of trauma that can lead to homelessness, repetitive patterns of abuse, incarceration, substance use, and even death, all while struggling with mental health challenges that go unaddressed.

Through So Far So Close, I sought to create a program that not only supports women in escaping violent situations but also actively addresses the risk of homelessness and the emotional toll on children by providing critical resources when funding is available. Although we do not provide housing, our Rediscover YOU initiative provides critical resources to help secure emergency and safe housing solutions during the crucial first 72 hours after fleeing an abuser. By preventing homelessness, we help families stay together and offer them the resources they need for long-term recovery.

Our program is essential in breaking the cycle of abuse, offering trauma-informed care that addresses the root causes of domestic violence and its aftermath. So Far So Close ensures that children, who are often left out of the conversation, receive the attention and support they need to heal alongside their mothers. We focus on personal development, mental health care, and family stability, ensuring that survivors do not just escape but also rebuild and thrive, free from the threat of returning to abusive situations.

By addressing the intersection of domestic violence and homelessness, So Far So Close plays a key role in creating lasting change and helping families avoid the cycle of instability and trauma. Our work ensures that no woman or child is left behind, providing a clear path to safety, empowerment, and a future filled with hope.

Rediscover YOU: Reclaiming the Power from Trauma Program

So Far So Close, INC. is a community-driven initiative dedicated to preventing homelessness and empowering women and children fleeing domestic violence. Our flagship program, Rediscover YOU, operates through the strength of community collaboration, shared resources, and generous donations from individuals, partners, and aligned organizations.

Our services—including immediate, temporary housing resources during the critical first 72 hours—are made possible only through the availability of donated resources, either from our organization or through the support of collaborating community partners. These resources help us prevent homelessness, keep families together, and provide a safe and secure pathway out of abusive environments.

Rediscover YOU uses a comprehensive, trauma-informed approach focused on healing, cognitive development, and personal empowerment. Participants receive tailored coaching designed to support financial independence and long-term stability, while also promoting personal transformation through accountability, goal-setting, and restorative justice principles.

In partnership with community advocates and organizations, So Far So Close, INC., also engages in public policy reform to address the systemic roots of domestic violence. Through research and lived experience, we uplift the voices of survivors to influence policies that build safer, more supportive environments for women and children.

The Rediscover YOU program includes:

Mind-Body Awareness: Cultivating recognition and understanding of trauma
Self and Social Skill Development: Strengthening interpersonal and life skills
Healthy Relationships: Promoting accountability and safety in personal connections
Inner Strength and Confidence-Building: Encouraging self-worth and resilience
Addressing Childhood Harms: Unpacking how early trauma shapes present beliefs
Holistic Tools: Providing strategies for navigating complex trauma

Available services, as donations and community resources, allow, may include:

Emergency escape support for survivors
Post-crisis medical referrals and resources
Temporary shelter or hotel assistance
Transportation (gas cards, bus passes, or emergency Uber rides)
Essentials for women and children (clothing, hygiene, baby items)
Safe and affordable housing referrals
Job readiness training and employment placement support
Monthly family bonding outings (based on funding availability)

Rediscover YOU is built on the belief that healing begins with support—and that every woman deserves the chance to rebuild her life. Through the collective effort of our community, we offer not just services but hope, empowerment, and the opportunity to thrive.

Please note: Our Trauma-Informed Care Coaching services are for mentoring, educational, and support purposes only and are not a substitute for professional mental health care. We do not provide clinical diagnoses or therapeutic treatment.

Freedom NOW Program

The Freedom NOW initiative by So Far So Close, Inc. is dedicated to advocating for individuals who have experienced wrongful convictions or disproportionately severe sentencing. Through collaborations with organizations like Different Souls on One Accord and Women Woke Within, we aim to raise awareness, provide resources, and support the reintegration of these individuals into society.

Our Mission

We strive to:

Advocate for individuals affected by the criminal justice system by connecting them with resources and support networks.
Empower formerly incarcerated individuals through educational programs and life skills training.
Collaborate with community organizations to amplify voices and stories that highlight the human impact of mass incarceration.

Our Services

Educational Resources and Advocacy

Information on navigating the complexities of the criminal justice system.
Mailed Information on understanding rights and available support mechanisms.

Life Coaching and Personal Development

Trauma-informed care coaching through the penpal program.
Personal development coaching aimed at building confidence and self-sufficiency.

Community Engagement

Partnerships with media platforms, including Women Woke Within and Shift International ROKU and Fire Stick television network, to share personal stories and raise public awareness.
Campaigns to humanize the issue of mass incarceration and advocate for systemic reforms.

Share Your Story

If you or a loved one has been impacted by the criminal justice system and would like to share your story to inspire change, please visit: https://massincarcerationhasaface.com/

Please note: So Far So Close, Inc. does not provide legal advice or representation. Our role is to advocate and connect individuals with appropriate resources and support networks.